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LIVE Counselling Questions Answered By Dr. Pradnya Ajinkya

1] What in your opinion is the issue that most couples have when it comes to talking to their partner about preferences in bed?
Even partners who love each other can be a mismatch, sexually. No explosions of passion. No breathy proclamations of desire. Your partner is ready to go in an instant. He/she may prefer dry, chaste pecks. Everything else in the relationship is working, sexual styles aren't always compatible. Lack of sexual self awareness and education worsens these problems. Couples spend nearly one-third of their lives sleeping together, or at least trying to be with each other with different sleep needs, preferences, and problems. If you're not able to resolve your differences in bed with your bed partner, you are not alone. It's a big problem. When the interest fades resentment remains. Resentment can begin to threaten the survival of your relationship without either of the partners knowing it.

2] Do women face this problem more than men?
 It can be either of the …

His and Her Relationship -- LIVE COUNSELLING SESSION

Prabha and Reema were friends for 4 years and married for 3 years.Prabha was 36 years old, and Reema was 30. The session began by asking each of them to tell me a little bit about themselves that had nothing to do with the problem and later reasons that brought them to see me. Prabha was a professional photographer.For fun he enjoyed cooking, gardening, listening to music, reading and dancing. Reema taught in a prestigious institution. She also enjoyed cooking, music and enjoyed going out with friends to clubs and movies, talking on the phone for hours with friends, meeting friends, travelling and reading.
Therapist : Tell me something about your relationship that had nothing to do with the problem?
Prabha: We often enjoy shopping together. We earlier found happiness when we did things that pleased each other. Lately, I seem to get frustrated and very angry towards Reema.
Reema : I love shopping together. Prabha is very considerate about my needs and feelings. I was not aware that he…